Moments of decision. When pen meets paper meets heart meets mouth meets past collides with present becomes future. In a word, choice. The most powerful thing that we have is the ability to continually choose; choose life, choose love, choose hope, choose wonder. When we don’t see. When I don’t see.
I’m nearing the end of this road, it seems, and as I approach a dusty yield sign reminding me of the coming transition, I am realizing how continual the journey of discovery really is. Chapters fit into one another, or maybe they are really just sentences. Words. Letters. Scrawl marks. Or, maybe they are entire volumes of life that have been richly lived. Loved. Inhabited.
One of my greatest challenges and greatest strengths is that I am undeniably whole-hearted. It is nearly impossible for me to do anything halfway; I am a risk taker, all-in kind of person, and when I decide to do something, anything, it will be with all of me. I love this characteristic of me, it is authentic, real, and fully present. It makes everything in life very interesting; I am passionate and full of wonder. I am alive and engaged in the business of living. I am also terribly adept at putting down roots and finding my home in them.
The last four years have been truly splendid; let me remember that. Because when I was preparing to leave my home in Quebec and move across the country to start a new life, I could not imagine how incredible the journey would be. Likewise, I could not have imagined that Quebec, once a foreign land, could have become home! In leaving it, I could not have imagined the people I would meet, the outstanding opportunities that I would stumble into, the favor, love, and family I would meet. I could never have imagined that moving to study Nutrition and Maternal Health at UBC would open the door to travel to every corner in Uganda, to twice visit Rwanda, or to spend six weeks living with the Safaris in Nairobi. I could not have known that that step of faith, terribly painful as it was to leave what had become home, would lead to the discoveries about who I am, about how big, kind, and generous God is, and about how complex, interconnected, and intrinsically connected humanity is. Never, when crying out to God from between the hay bales in the country side of Sutton about how I would possibly find a place to live in one of the world’s most expensive cities, would I envision living in Journey, a beautiful condo at UBC surrounded by old trees, big windows, and a live stream in the lobby. I could not see through the tears that day at the airport as I left behind people I loved so much to come to a new and empty land into the moments that I now inhabit- and the realization that four years later, I am deeply rooted and grounded in a similar way.
It is a paradox of perspective. At times, I feel tempted to resist the inevitable changes that are coming my way, and stay stuck in the moment I’m in, just because it is so beautiful. I feel reticent to embrace new things. But when I stop and remember, I know that I would not exchange this journey for anything! It is counter-intuitive to embrace pain sometimes; and I know that the fact that I dread the transition from this place is a great thing; it means that I’ve loved here, and have been loved. Let this beautiful reality give me the wings to arise in faith that just as this chapter has been beyond imagination, so too will the next. The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me to lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside the still waters. He restores my soul. He leads me in the paths of righteousness for His name’s sake. If He is with me, all things will be beautiful.
The beauty of age is memory and experience; a continually developing lens through which to interpret life. As I grow older, I have more experiences and more memories on which to stand. In the busy ness of being wholehearted and engaged in life, I need to remember to yield…. that sign that says, slow down, watch, wait, listen. Don’t rush ahead. Slow down…. watch. Wait. Listen. And when the right time comes, go. Go.
I am taking the next season to yield… to intentionally sloooowwww down. to remember where I have come from and to look forward to where I am going. And to see the people around me, their interactions, their trajectories, their lives. I am delighting in the rhythm of rest that follows a good run, and I’m choosing. I am choosing to be full of faith, wonder, and expectancy for the road ahead.